self (---?---)

one
only one
provision(grateful), compulsion(acceptance)

boss (compulsion)


two
more than two
choice(pleasure), selection(privilege), comparision(dilemma)

food (choice, selection)
clothes(choice, selection, comparision)
gadgets(choice, selection, comparision)
jobs(selection, comparision)
friends (selection)
lovers (comparisons)

self(----?----)